Friday, May 26, 2006

What About the Good Guys?

I'm not going to use a concrete example of the folks who are doing things wrong with money in God's name. It's unnecessary - as soon as I mentioned the concept, you already had a picture in your mind of the people who you know that have done this. There are well over 2,000 verses in the Bible related to money and posessions. They all point to the wise use of the resources God has entrusted to us as well as the anger of God when His people misuse His power for their purpose.

Christ called Satan "the father of all lies" who speaks in the native tongue of Liarsville - Lies. Where do you think the "Liar, liar, pants on fire" thing came from anyway? Alright, that's silly, but the point is, Paul tells us that we are in the midst of spiritual warfare. There is a war raging everyday, not in the typical, action movie style we love to watch in HD, DTS 7.1 surround sound. It is one in which the enemy does all he can to discredit the God who allows us to call Him "Father".

Today, let's take a moment to Google ministries that are doing things right with the money collected in God's name. Start out at The Evangelical Council for Financial Accountability, and take a few moments to celebrate those who are using the resources God has entrusted to us to reach those who are lost from Christ. Take up the shield of faith and extinguish the flaming arrows of the evil one with the knowledge that God has called us to do things wisely, righteously, in His name and for His glory. Fight back at the lies with the sword of faith that there are a great many who have answered this call and done so with integrity.

Wednesday, May 24, 2006

What's It Going to Take?

So often God has encouraged us in His word. So often did Christ urge us to make the wise choice. So often did Paul, James, John, and others tell us about the great things that will come if we walk upright and show our love for God vis-a-vis our love for others.

And yet...

So often has he had to discipline us - to bring loss and pain front and center in our lives in graphic, personal, relevant detail.

Of the two scenarios, which makes us move faster, more urgently, with more passion and concern? Unfortunately, our Creator knows that we are often lazy. Without the threat of being run over by the carriage we're pulling, we may lose interest in the ever elusive carrot on the string.

So, who do you know that needs encouragement? And, if you've been only encouraging them with the carrot, is it possible that God will move their hearts only when you show them the possibility of the pain of the carriage in clearer, pertinent detail? I've never seen the Bible tell us to spur one another on to love and good deeds by threats and baseball bats. However, have you noticed that people rarely jump up out of their seat when the thumbtack on their cushion is pointing down?

Just a thought that's been plaguing my mind.

Monday, May 22, 2006

What Would Jesus Do?

I'm always bothered by that question. Yet, I see so many followers of Christ using that as a litmus test for how to live their lives.

It sounds noble. It sounds wise. And yet, when you look at how Jesus handled the "tricky" situations the Pharisees surrounded Him with, you begin to track with me on the same path...

Luke 20.19-26 is a depiction of the Pharisees trying to trick Jesus into taking sides. But, as my pastor often says, "Jesus didn't come to take sides, He came to take over. Christ sees into the hearts of men and cuts them off at the intellectual pass. Often, his opposition would be thinking something and He, knowing their hearts, would answer the question they hadn't yet posed.

Now, I'm all for being wise, reading people, and asking the questions that really get to the bottom of the issue at hand, especially when it is a complete strawman. But, I'm not sure I have the gift of telepathy or heart-reading. Do you ever get confused in those WWJD situations?
What would Jesus do in this situation?
"Uh, read their minds and ask them the real question..."


Is it theologically sound to answer the question with a confident "I don't know"?

Wednesday, May 17, 2006

Talking Behind Your Back

I've commented before on James 5.19-20 and Psalm 27.17 before.

They are favorite portions from God's word that urge His followers to constantly challenge each other when someone is drifting and to challenge each other even when not drifting. In short, "If you love someone, set them free" falls secondary to "If you love someone, don't let them be." But, all the active discussion and leadership by example will be wasted if we fail to talk about them behind their backs.

Huh?

Yes, that's what I said, but not what you probably heard. In John 17, Christ prays for His disciples - asking God, the Father, to protect them, to sanctify them, and that they may be made like Him. He often went off on His own to pray but the Bible is sketchy on what He prayed for. Do you think He prayed for them from time to time? Said things to God about them to ask His Father to continue to stretch and grow them? Again, sketchy, but a fair assumption.

What do you think His conversation and prayer were like on the day that Peter stepped out of the boat, becoming the only man to sink next to Christ, because He dared to walk on water, too? Do you think He shared with God how great He is for pushing Peter's buttons far enough to get him onto the water in the first place? Do you think He was Peter's greatest cheering squad? The prayers we know nothing about are likely the prayers that manifest themselves in "A-ha!" moments wherein we notice the fruits of previously unnoticed sowing and growing.

Bottom line, growth doesn't happen only from sermons and examples - the encouragement of prayer, unbeknownst to the prayee - catalyses change. So, who are you praying for? Who are you celebrating because of the little victories in their life? Who are you encouraging to God? Who do you care enough about to talk about when they aren't there?

talk to them about them - find out where they are
talk to God about them - ask Him to push them further down the path.

Sunday, May 14, 2006

Guest Appearance by Andy Stanley?!

Well, maybe not. But, Catalyst recently published a great article Andy wrote that addresses both of our Monday topics: Leadership and Work. Here it is, printed without permission. Here is the link to the actual article. Further, I've added Catalyst Monthly to our list of "gotta read it" blogs, even though it's a newsletter and not a blog. Is that so wrong?!


Trust is the currency of relationships. Great leaders cultivate a culture of trust, and thus a culture where relationships thrive. But how do you foster trust between members of your team?

For some, trust is not the intuitive choice. However, I believe it is just that. A choice. In 1 Corinthians 13, Paul says that along with forgiving, enduring, and bearing all things, love believes all things. We must reconcile the scriptural charge to believe all things with the fact that it is not always easy to do. If we believe it is possible for us to choose to love, or be kind, or be patient, then we must also believe we can choose to trust.

But the gap between what we expect of people and what they actually deliver makes it hard to trust. We can either fill that gap with trust or with suspicion. How we handle these opportunities is the greatest determining factor in the success or failure of the relationships in our organizations.

I started by saying that trust is the currency of relationships. Currency implies an exchange of one thing for another. Relationally, we give trust, and we expect trustworthiness in return. But trustworthiness is not a synonym for perfection. Trust is not built on flawless character, but on authenticity. I will extend trust to people who will admit their imperfections. It is people who defend their infallibility who make me suspicious.

There are situations that merit suspicion. What's important is how we handle them. When over time a person's actions erode our trust, and we believe those actions leave the organization vulnerable to harm, we have a responsibility . to talk to that person about it, (not the rest of the team), to address the gap, and give that person the opportunity to re-establish their trustworthiness. Trustworthy people will address the suspicion they've created.

I wish this principle were easy to implement. It's not. But it is crucial for building a strong team. Here are three things to keep in mind when a trust versus suspicion issue surfaces:

1. When there is a gap, choose to trust.
2. When you see others filling the gap with suspicion, come to the defense of the suspect.
3. If what you see continues to erode your trust, go to the person directly.

Great leaders create a culture in which people have learned how to trust. Modeling biblical trust as outlined in 1 Corinthians 13 is one of the greatest leadership strategies you can employ. Biblical trust is not denial - pretending that you don't see behavior that erodes your trust. It's not withdrawal - refusing to confront. The key is to choose to trust. When it becomes impossible to fill the gap between expectation and behavior with trust, ask for clarification.

Trust is the currency of relationships. Trust is a dynamic your team cannot afford to be without. Model it. Extend it. Choose to trust.

Friday, May 12, 2006

Friday: Time and/or Money...

I had a great opportunity last fall to meet Tod Bolsinger. Very aunthentic and decent guy. And he loves the Lord.

I say with embarrassment that I have not read his blog It Takes a Church... in several months. He is quite perceptive and understanding. On this time or money Friday, I want to defer to him to talk about something we've looked at before: rhythm in life....

Not too long ago, I read a lengthy article about the legendary track coach from the University of Oregon, Bill Bowerman. Bowerman was to running, what John Wooden was to college basketball. Indeed, it was Bowerman’s genius that led to the modern running shoe, as he used his wife’s waffle iron to create the first wide waffle-soled shoe. He was also one of the co-founders of Nike.

Back in the day when all training for running simply meant logging as many miles as hard as possible, Bowerman was convinced that it was impossible to reach your potential as a runner unless you also built in regular, committed, disciplined, dedicated periods of NOT running. He used to gather his new recruits to the university together at the beginning of the season and tell them:

“Gentleman, take a primitive organism, any weak, pitiful organism. Make it lift or jump or run. Let it rest. What happens? A little miracle. It gets a little better. That’s all training is. Stress—recover—improve.”

I believe that without even recognizing it, Bowerman was pointing to the rhythm for all living the way God intended it to be.

Stress, recover, improve.
Stretch, relax, change.
Work, rest, grow.
Trial, trust, transform.

Wednesday, May 10, 2006

Listening with the Heart

"He who has ears, let him hear." Mt. 13.9

I bet the disciples were confused when Jesus told this story about seeds that were planted - "Some fell on this ground, others on rock, others grew up, some never took root...He who has ears, let him... What the heck is that all about!"

It just seemed so out of place until He explained further that some people just don't listen. Some people's hearts are as fertile for new ideas as a rock sown with seed. Sales is teaching me a lot about listening skills. It's also teaching me that you often have to repeat yourself or people will listen but not hear.

It's also teaching me that I'm not immune to having deaf ears or a hard heart...

Where does God want to transform you? What parts of your heart have you closed off to people you just have had enough of? Christ lets us know here that not everyone will hear God's truth willingly. Perhaps we all need some brokenness to break down the harder, less fertile parts of our souls...

Monday, May 08, 2006

Don't Worry, Be Happy?

Cast your anxiety on Him.

I've glossed over that verse so many times without paying attention to the fact that God gives us advice on what to do with our anxiety and worry. Worry comes up in the Old and the New Testaments - always in the negative: "Do not worry..." Have you conformed to the pattern of the world that sells the vision of success as the wrinkle free life? Do you believe, like many Christ-followers mistakenly do, that to follow Christ means no fear, no worry, no anxiety?

What's your vision of success? Flawless living? No arguments, no fears, no cares?

I think we fail to read the context in which those things do not exist - that's in heaven that we lose all the worry. I think that God is telling us that worry is normal. It will come into our lives. It will invade our space. It will seek strongholds in our brain. But, when that happens. Don't try to be the hero and fight it. (Is that scripturally sound?) Instead, deposit it at the cross. God calls us to give those thoughts over to Him, to replace those thoughts with "my God is bigger than these things".

Worry always leads to regret. That's my vision of success. That's God's vision of success for our lives. No regrets. Remember, we get to review our movie in heaven with the Director Himself. How will you account for your performance?

So, today, I rejoice in the fact that God is the god of worry. He can take it. He will take it. He wants you to give it to Him.

No more worry. No more regrets.
Praise Christ.

Friday, May 05, 2006

Give It Away, Give It Away, Give It Away Now

Let's be frank about this - I grew up with a "healthy" degree of skepticism when it came to giving money to the church. I mean, in my denomination, it was all about robes and big hats, stained glass windows and hundred thousand dollar organ lofts, and pomp and circumstance out the wazoo. It just seemed a bit suspect, you follow?

So, it follows naturally, that whenever I looked into scripture and saw commands to give money to support the high priests or saw one of those bible thumpin guys on TV talking about "God wanted me to have a Mercedes..." I was further turned off. Can you relate at all?

So, when I read this piece of scripture, it caught me a bit off guard -
For God is the one who gives seed to the farmer and then bread to eat. In the same way, he will give you many opportunities to do good, and he will produce a great harvest of generosity[a] in you. Yes, you will be enriched so that...
So that, if you pray to God and obey all the rules and do a good deed or two when it's convenient, God will rain down that Mercedes and 7,000 square foot home on Lake Lanier just for you...

Wouldn't that be the line that the TV preacher would quote you? Doesn't the Bible say that everything you ask for, God will just give it to you because He made the mistake of giving you the Aramaic Express Black card - "Whatever you ask for in my name..."? I mean, it's His fault. He gave you carte blanche to ask and receive, too bad He didn't know you'd be asking for that 1,001 hp 16 cylinder Bugatti sport.

How big is your God?

The last half of that verse is so crucial. It's not about what you want. read this over once or twice:
Yes, you will be enriched so that you can give even more generously. And when we take your gifts to those who need them, they will break out in thanksgiving to God.
He gives to us, knowing our hearts. What do you think He's looking for? I believe angels are betting whole galaxies that you'll succeed at using your abundance wisely. I believe demons are tempting us constantly to trick us into believing God gives to us for us. In reality, He's just testing to see how trustworthy we are with a little before He gives us more than we can handle.


Thought for the day, all this in mind:
Take advantage of your advantage to give advantage to the disadvantaged.

Wednesday, May 03, 2006

Field Trip!!!

Click here to take a field trip for today over to "Gospel Driven Life". An article on relational health, God-style.

I only disagree with Mark on one point. I don't believe the gospel writer means that we confess to God and have fellowship with each other. I think it's more like "confess to each other and have fellowship with God". I say this for two reasons - first, Matthew makes it clear that God's desire is greater that we are reconciled to each other than to make sacrifices of atonement to Him. Second, we are the body of Christ, we as a close knit group are a semblance of God. When we are all reconciled to each other, our fellowship with God becomes seamless.

This point aside, I think Mark's hit this one on the head. What do you think?

Monday, May 01, 2006

So, What Do You Do?

For everything in the world — the cravings of sinful man, the lust of his eyes and the boasting of what he has and does — comes not from the Father but from the world. The world and its desires pass away, but the man who does the will of God lives forever. (1John 2.16-17)


In some contexts, "kosmos" means "a place where people live". In others, it refers to a system that opposes God. There are three clues he gives us to show us when we are off the God track and stuck in the world's rut - the cravings of our sinful nature (rebellion, in the sense of "I know it's wrong, but I'm going to do it anyway), lusting after "stuff", and the tendency to equate who we are to what we do - title, fame, glory.

Steven Covey and I depart on the point of the divinity of Christ, but are in accord when it comes to a very Biblical principle: the private victory. Fighting the temptation to hang my identity on what I have and do is so counterculture that even mature Christians - those who have followed Jesus, well, for a long time - find themselves giving in to this both accidently constantly. When people ask what you do and what you do does not match what you've always wanted to do, does that voice in your head convince you to polish it up? Do you go from being a mild mannered waiter to "Executive Guest Liaison to the Culinary Staff"?

John is very in your face about this - what you do and what you take pride in in this life will wither and die. The Bible teaches us that this is all going to be burned up some day (Rev. 8.7). Someday, it will all go away. The car you worked so hard for, the awards and accolades from your peers, all that stuff that the world teaches as vital will be gone. Our only fig leaf will be that which we have done in His service.

Gonna be a lotta folks wandering around butt-nickett, that would, believe it or not, be happier dressed to the nines.

Friday, April 28, 2006

Alone?

Isn't it interesting that after days and days (or ages, depending on your interpretation of Genesis), of creating, saying "it is good", creating, saying "it is good", that God would say that something as terrible as "it is not good"? Rob Bell pointed this out to me - the Garden was not perfect. There was something wrong within God's perfect creation: not an imperfection of what He made, but something created by the enemy.

It is not good for man to be alone.

What are you doing in your day to day activities to make sure that those who look up to you are being fed compassion and belonging? What are you doing to support them and guard them against lonliness?

Wednesday, April 26, 2006

Homosexuality...

Today, I defer to the wise and well spoken Brian McLaren.

The Homosexual Question

Monday, April 24, 2006

God & Geometry, Part II

Trust in the Lord and lean not on your own understanding and in all your ways he will make your paths straight.

I can't help but think of what the angels were thinking while Moses wandered through the desert for 40 years. I mean, is it really that long of a trip? Let's say the desert were many times larger than it is, say, the size of the continental US. Would it take you 40 years to go from Miami to Seattle? How about Portland, ME to San Diego?

Clearly, the nation of Israel was violating this crucial axiom while it corkscrewed and figure-eighted through the barren wasteland from Egypt to the land of milk and honey. Forty years!!! Are you freaking kidding me?! Even if we only walked 2 miles per hour for 6 hours a day, six days per week, we'd still make our destination in less than a year!!! Okay, they couldn't stop at the McMatzah's for a Moishe-burger and Gefilte fries, but even at 3 hours a day, we're only talking 85 weeks or less to travel 3000 miles.

The Bible tells us in many places that God wants to prosper us, to grow us, to stretch us beyond who we are or ever could be without Divine intervention. With this in mind, is it any wonder why every time we grumble and rebel against Him, we automatically stretch out the amount of time between us and our eventual destination? Is it any wonder why we find ourselves wandering in circles with little to sustain us in dry, empty wilderness?

There's more to teach about, but so little more that needs to be said - Seek first His kingdom and His righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well. (Mt. 6.33, ESV)

I think it's very easy for us to suffer from "Small God Syndrome". Instead of imagining God as huge, complex, and wise, we see His discretion and timing as if He is out of control - too small to give us what we want, deserve, or "need". Our path wanders around like Moses and the grumbling Israelites in the desert. A small child is distracted by a small toy and easily gives up what is in their hand for something less valuable. Or, is that you and I? Do we misplace our trust for God and trade greater things for lesser because we are so headstrong on the path to what we want that we miss what we need?

What if we gave God the space to be God - to be large and in charge - and guide us on the most direct path to His ultimate destination for us? Is it possible we might look back one day and discover that He had pulled all the other things we desired to us? Is it possible that we may one day see in our wake the greatest life we could have lived because we sacrificed the lesser for the greater?

Only if our God is big enough.

Friday, April 21, 2006

Ends vs. Means, Part 1

"Perhaps" is such an interesting word for today. It expresses the truth that we are uncertain and hope that something will occur. In this context, it sounds like insanity - 2 men against thousands. Erwin McManus took me on a walk this week through the background music of my thoughtlife - a haunting, ever present descant that reminds me often that while God has a plan for all of us and promises to deliver us, He never promised a safe ride.

No, the God who spoke the universe into being has a more elaborate and convoluted plan than we could ever hope to understand. But, as He is God, and God is the epitome of greatness, why would anything less than God be His priority? I've heard Louie Giglio talk over and over about how God is righteously and rightly "stuck on Himself". That frightens us, at least to some degree.

But, we are urged to do something - anything - the next right thing. And that is what Jonathan does in that passage - as Erwin says, "chasing daylight". Asking the Switchfoot question "this is your life: are you who you want to be"? How would you live if you knew you'd be dying in a week? What kind of chances would you take, thoughts would you think, and how obedient would you be if you knew that God was not letting you off the next plane alive? Could you live for Him? Could you still point to Him, trusting His judgement?

Some of you have already left - walked away, because you blame Him for where you are or who didn't make it. But, this ignores the opportunity with which you have been presented: "Do you trust Me? Will you trust that through the bad, the ugly, and the terrible, I can make it right?"

All men die. Not all men truly live.

What will you do?

Wednesday, April 19, 2006

Hard to be Selfless...

I just caught a glimpse of an oft quoted and preached verse in Matthew 6. Verses 3 and 4 have this to say about why we do what we often do:
When you give to the needy, do not let your left hand know what your right hand is doing, so that your giving may be in secret.
John Ortberg once reminded me about "impression management" - how often we say things to position ourselves as more important or less awkward or more intelligent than we really are. I just did it right there, nonchalantly dropping his name as if he spoke this as a reprimand to a longtime friend who has permission to speak wisdom into my life, when in actuality, I read it from a book he wrote. Don't I seem connected, respected, relevant?

But, herein lies the dilemma: when we seek spiritual growth and transformation, are we seeking a victory that we share with only ourselves, building our own ego, our own self image, or is our audience the God who commands us to be made new in the attitude of our minds? (Eph. 4.23) Do we seek personal growth or Godular growth? I mean, who are we trying to please? Did you give that homeless lady your shirt to impress your girlfriend, make your parents think you're "getting this God thing", or to please God? Or worse, are you doing it because God tells you to and you're just trying to get in with Him? Just storing up treasures in Heaven...

Treasures for who?

I'm accusing us as being selfish in our selflessness. Do we seek to do God's will or do we seek to get his attention, respect, or favor so we feel better about ourselves, so our circumstances improve? At the root, we all have a tendency to do things, "selfless things" because of what it will do for us. It is so hard to separate ourselves from this pattern.

I think this is where the Holy Spirit comes in and comes in handy - relying on Him to move our hearts toward a decision not because it seems "right", feels "good". If we think for ourselves, we often do just that: think for our selves. We know something is rright, wrong, good, evil, etc. because of that little barometer that goes off in our hearts when something doesn't seem right or something makes sense (caveat: Jeremiah 17.9). Rather than relying on feeling, we are urged to listen for the voice of God through His Messenger. This can help us separate God's will for us from our selfish acts of selflessness.

Are you listening or are you building the biggest stack of bling in Heaven? Is that bling for your glory or His?

Pray hard.

Monday, April 17, 2006

Exposing the Truth: None of my business...

So many times I hear the question - "If God were so good, why would ___?" I've even asked it from time to time. It's a bit of a loaded question, though, isn't it? When we look at the situation, we assume that God allowed it to happen almost in a vacuum. We assume that there is no war going on and that there are to be no casualties. Aren't we sort of assuming that God wins every battle? Wouldn't be much of a contest, would it?

Imagine, the Pittsburgh Steelers, or better, the New England Patriots go marching down the field with their fistfuls of Super Bowl rings, but there's no opposing team!!! It might be fun for New England fans for about the first 3 or 4 touchdowns, but after a while, it's not much to look at, is it? For some reason we all get tragically offended to think that we are part of a game on a field, and I can appreciate that. I'm even with you for a good portion of that angst. But, when we look at the context for life in the world (Greek: kosmos - system of belief, rules, a matrix or philosophy from which a worldview is sourced), which is more fierce than a game - it is a struggle, a battle in no uncertain terms.

The basic Biblical explanation is that when sin entered the world through Adam and Eve, it brought with it a whole host of other junk - death, disease, depression, the need for disinfectant and deodorant. Alright, facetiousness aside, we - the traitor race - betrayed the God who walked with Adam and Eve in the garden. We broke the one and only rule and set loose a chain reaction that a good and righteous God could not let go unpunished. (If He did, He wouldn't be righteous, would He?) And so, with it, sin always brings consequences, shrapnel, as I like to call it. Nothing that's bad in the world can not fall into the category of shrapnel.

Some of us know this because we work around it every day. There are people on our team, above us or below us, who are doing something unethical, incorrect, or just plain wrong. I recommend a very important verse for all of us to meditate on from time to time: My brothers, if one of you should wander from the truth and someone should bring him back, remember this: Whoever turns a sinner from the error of his way will save him from death and cover over a multitude of sins. (James 5.19-20) Some of us have a serious ethical dilemma to face "do I turn them in? Do I say something?"

So often, our answer ranges on the weak side of courage where resides justification and rationalization. You know, "It's none of my business.", "It's not hurting anyone...", "It's making us more money, forget about it..." How blind are we to our own fear or rejection?! If it's not your business, explain that to a guy with 25 years in at Enron and all his retirement stacked up in company options when the plug got pulled. BOOOOOM!!! Shrapnel. Could someone have made it their business years before that bomb went off? Nope. It was none of their business. What about the guy who's chatting online with some girl who's not his wife, gets caught by his wife in bed with someone else who's underage, now you've got three months of 70 hour weeks doing his work while they find a replacement. None of your business...

I'm going to encourage you to think selfishly on this one for once - because Jesus would, too. He's thinking about the shrapnel that kills you when you make the unwise or unholy choice, but just as importantly, those around you who will bear the pain and scars from the shrapnel you may emit when your life explodes. Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit, but in humility consider others better than yourselves. (Phil. 2.3)" Consider others. Would you? It's not necessarily about what one individual is doing that's "harmless", but the long term and short term consequences by their behavior. What would Jesus do? Would he explain away or expose the truth?

Here's our work for the day, the week, the life: "have nothing to do with the fruitless deeds of darkness, but rather expose them... (Eph. 5.11)"

Friday, April 14, 2006

A Horse With No Name...

The song goes: "I've been through the desert on a horse with no name. It felt good to get out of the rain. In the desert, you can remember you name, because there ain't no one for to give you no fame..."

Catchy tune. Catchy lyrics. Yet, we lose the meaning in the midst of our hurried lives. Christ so often went to the desert or a solitary, remote place before a major event or undertaking - did He know something about unplugging from the hurried life that we have failed to notice? Is it possible that a temporary break from status, titles, fame, and the rain and flurry of activity with which we are barraged could help us to recharge?

Yes, this is fairly intuitive. Nothing we need to take notes on, eh?

Or, do we forget? Do we talk ourselves into believing that we are above the laws of nature, society, and physics (all God-given laws) and the "just this one time" principle won't come back and bite us in the butt? How often have you bought that lie? Are you keeping holy the Sabbath? This isn't a look at legalism and you, it's a look at "why did God put that rule out there?" Why would the Sabbath Day be so high up on the list of "only 10 things you need to know from God"?!

That song, by America, is catchy, but what if they recorded it with random tempo changes? How catchy would it be then? Rob Bell explains that God has a rhythm. God. Yes. He worked 6 days and rested 1. He told us to work 6 days and rest 1. Why? Should He really care, or is He just looking to lay down some rules because He wants to toy with us and rule over us? Consistent rhythm is far more impotant than the pace at which we work. Clearly, the Bible insists we work with vigor and urgency but, more importantly, it commands we maintain an even, urgent, 6 on 1 off rhythm.

So, how are you doing? Are you taking inventory of which cars are in the two lanes in front of you so you can plan which one is going to proceed through the stop light fastest? Do you take time to intentionally go to the desert, take a day off, and recharge? Do you take time to reflect on where you are going regardless of your title, status, and other factors that unwittingly drag you down?

Do what you must, but I say detatch once a week, throw your Crackberry in the freezer, forget all the accolades, and recharge. Sabbath. Take a sabbatical from the wolrd. Dedicate yourself to a consistent 6 and 1 rhythm and see how catchy your tune becomes...

Wednesday, April 12, 2006

Cleanest Common Denominator

"You were taught with regard to your former way of life, to put off your old self which is being corrupted by its deceitful desires, to be made new in the attitude of your minds...(Eph 4.22-23) NIV"

I am divorced. I believe that the scriptures do not make provision for a man or woman to remarry while both are still alive. It is a very unpopular, but biblically sound standpoint. It also causes tremendously heated debate. For this reason, I have remained single and gratefully turned down opportunities to date for the past three plus years. Scripture's clearest and wisest path for my life (given current circumstances), is to "seek first His kingdom" regardless of whether or not "all these things will be given to" meMt.6.33.

Teasing this out means - the wisest path for me to take is to continue to work on who I am through renewing my mind with God's word and becoming he best that God would have me be. Should my ex-wife predecease me, then I may take steps toward dating, but only after wise counsel and prayerful consultation with the Lord..

While quite a controversial stance, this is not the purpose of this post, rather context for a revelation God has made to me. While single, my view of the love relationships around me has become remarkably clearer. Without a dating relationship in my own face, my ability to see more objectively has been unhindered. What I have seen, for the most part, are women who are dying to be dated and men who feel they have to be dating in order to be a man.

I am painting with rather broad strokes, but I've got to ask - have you seen people jump from relationship to relationship thinking it was the relationship that was bad rather than the participants in the relationship? How many times have you seen her make the same relational mistake with guy after guy? Have you mentioned to her that the common denominator may not be the guys?

Scripture bears out that God desires a relationship with us and to prosper us, unfettered by the many snags and pitfalls that come being broken people living in a broken world. That being said, wouldn't it be smart to take some time off from intimate relationships to "renew our minds" (and, consequently, our hearts and souls) before moving to the next one? Could God be smart enough to create the universe, 600 kinds of beetles, and know what is right for us in all areas of our Lives? Is it possible that "defragmenting" your hard drive could make your computer run faster and access your files more efficiently? Is it possible that a renewed, rebuilt engine could function close to a new one? Is it possible that orange juice could taste any worse than after you've just brushed your teeth and not let the mint flavor wear off of your tongue?!

Then, why do we insist on leaving one relationship to jump into a new one, without renewing our minds? Knowing that there are three sides to every story, how much weight do we put on our side of the equation? How much have we truly prepared for a new relationship based on the empirical, objective behaviors that played even a minor tributary's role in the past relationship's collapse?

Can you pinpoint and own the actions you took that contributed to its demise?

Then, perhaps, you're ready to "put on the new self."

Then, perhaps, you're ready to meet someone else's new self.

Monday, April 10, 2006

Big Brother is Watching

Having read Orwel's "1984" during the 80s, I was disturbed by how accurately prophetic his work of fiction was at its core. At that time we didn't have web cameras, cell phone cameras, and traffic cams were few and far between. Today, I'm not sure if I'm more bothered by the red light cam that snaps $70 photos of your car blowing through the intersection or the cameraphone that catches me picking my nose at the traffic signal I no longer rush through. Doesn't it bother you that you're being photographed or filmed nearly every day and that every little move you make, intentional or accidental can come back to haunt you?

As Christians, we are told over and over that God is watching. For many of us who grew up that way, Our parents abused this principle to keep us in line. But, our Father in Heaven, if He is truly our father and not some cosmic soup-Nazi out to squash every ounce of happiness out of our lives, wants us to know that he cares so much about the banal details of our day-to-day, that He's promised a replay in Heaven. We are to give an account for all that we have done.

Now, the Bible is sketchy on the details - will it be an invite only crowd? Will it be a sold out show? Will it be just me and God on the back porch of heaven and a 15" black and white set sitting in rocking chairs throwing back a few 1Samuel & Adam's reviewing a play-by-play narrated by the apostle, Paul? Who knows? Doesn't matter. Bottom line, we get to sit through the podcast of our life with the author of life and explain every "what was I thinking" moment, moreover, what we were thinking.

So, let's get to work. An acquaintance of mine was frustrated in a retail store a few weeks ago - a Christian bookstore. His view of what "working for the Lord, not men" means is that we work hard to give people courteous, thoughtful customer service. I happen to agree. But, when he didn't get that kind of service, he explained to the clerk that she was making it easier for him to shop at Amazon.com. I believe he did it with tact and poise, but what's your response to either side?

Are you working to give the best service out there, regardless of the depth of your job description, rate of pay, or kind of day you're having, or do you succumb to external circumstances? When you don't get what you want, would you be surprised when the person behind you in line shows you the phoneCam version of your attitude? What will either of you say when the Almighty reaches for the remote control? As Dwight Moody says, "Character is what you are in the dark."

Are you working for a paycheck? Are you working for recognition? Or, are you working out of gratitude for the One who will review your life with you? Big Brother is watching. Which would you rather for your title: "The Amazing Adventures of..." or "Heaven's Funniest Home Videos"?